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meeting your soulmate

August 04, 2021 Zozo Shumba
meeting your soulmate
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From Love Itself Radio
meeting your soulmate
Aug 04, 2021
Zozo Shumba

talking about the new schedule,  meeting your soulmate, where i've been, and my august social media break, I guess this is season 3?

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talking about the new schedule,  meeting your soulmate, where i've been, and my august social media break, I guess this is season 3?

0:08  
Hey, hey, hey,

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guess who it is not Fat Albert. Hey guys, what's up? Welcome. How are you? I know I ghosted When was the last time I was here,

0:19  
April. Now that I'm not ghosting you guys, I am ghosting everything and everyone else I am not on social media until until the Lord speaks to me or something.

0:31  
I don't know.

0:32  
I just don't feel like it right now. It's just like not my moment like right now I'm not doing that. So, like right now I'm just like not on social anyway

0:38  
Hey Hey,

0:39  
welcome to from love itself anyway alive from love itself. I'm zozo and today we're going to chat with basically like, honestly, it's just a little bit crazy because like I just don't feel like being on social media right now. And not even like you know when like people see other people on like Tick Tock wearing like revealing clothing and they're like what views is low? Your views are low and really messed with my ego for a really long time. But like now that I don't care, I've just decided to exit the platform. Now but like, let's really talk about it. I agree something starts to feel like work budget unit Daria jobs, it should not feel like work. It really shouldn't. And that's not even to say that like, there's a fine line between feeling like work shouldn't feel like work and something that you know that you're supposed to be doing. Like an athlete that's practicing if they go to practice and reduce feels like work. It's like average, you're training for the Olympics. Like, it does feel like it. Yeah, it's not like that. It's like the bad kind. So I just kind of decided to take a pause, put a break on Tick Tock for the month and spend more time doing the things that bring me energy for this moment, right, so that I can realign because whatever I do on Tick Tock isn't going anywhere because it's not like the content is me. I literally, it's just me talking. So I'm just going to do that here. instead. I'm setting a period, because I'm on a new diet. But I'm literally just gonna do that here instead. And it'll be it'll be amazing. And I think it'll be worth it. So let's talk about the schedule. Too many episodes a week. One main episode too many episodes will be kind of like this where I'm just like talking. I have a kick ass thing for you today, I promise, but will be like this where I'm just kind of like talking and then the Wednesday like the big episode will be. Should I be on Wednesday? I love I dig a Thursday episode so hard. Like I feel like we should just do like, like, what's today Tuesday. We should just hit like a Wednesday morning. Like I'm totally like, the weekend starts on Wednesday kind of gal. I might even reframe this as Welcome to the weekend starts on Wednesday. So yeah. I love that the weekend starts on Wednesday. You guys is this like a real thing? Like is it actually like a podcast? Once when I did a solo podcast before I was like even on social media. I like posted the link of it on Reddit and this girl was like the host like I posted it like anonymously, like what do you guys think about this? And the girl was like, the host like talks about herself too much. I'm like, bitch, do you talk about yourself? Enough? Like, please cut the shirt. Relax. What is a weekend starts on Wednesday. Whoa. All right. So there's a whole album by Axel wolf.

3:54  
A wolf.

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xo wolf.

3:59  
Oh, okay.

4:04  
Sorry about that. I already got taken. Damn. So I guess we can start on Wednesday is officially taken. Only one show has that. What's it called? Only one show has that kind of thing. So anyway, hello. Hello. Hello. Hello. How are you? What? Are you good? Are you done? Remember when Wendy Williams was like is you feeling okay? Is he feeling okay? And we're like yeah has or Who was that? It was like Are you good? Is he good glows out you remember goes out goes out with my girl. Right? And he just asked me but basically, what is it? Okay, so too many episodes. And then we're gonna have like one main episode and we're always gonna have a visualization. And I think it's really important because I take it seriously like, this is Our sacred space like not only are we here, chatting and talking and just vibing but also I care about your health and your mental wellness and your well being. So I want to make sure that when you do visit this audience base not only do you guys will listen when we talk about my life as it is, but we also have this thing that we do on Wednesdays which is we meditate at soda should be Thursday. Thursday's good because like Thursdays, like right before we go out. If you're going out go vote like I'm in the second category. And I'm saying if you're going out, girl, like I was crazy. I did. I like exhausted my fuse for all of that stuff around 2019 maybe it was it was bad. I remember like one homecoming. This is like terrible role model ship. But like, I remember when homecoming I was like, passed out like I never made it out the door. So this is just what I'm saying. Like there's no need. We will do like Wednesday, mini episode, Thursday, bus club car now another car, another club, another bus. Note, we'll do Wednesday, mini episode. Thursday, visualization Friday. Do we really want a mini episode on Friday though, I like the idea of owning Sundays with a meditation not even going to trip like I love. Like I love owning stuff. So basically I that goes against all of my principles, but you know, whatever. So Sunday will be like a really long guided meditation.

6:48  
And it'll be like a meditation from love itself. And then Wednesday, okay, like that. And then Wednesday, we'll do a chit chat from love itself. And then Friday, we'll do a check in from of itself or just like a space from of itself, like mini episode can be whatever it is. I don't really care. I just do it on Wednesday, Friday and Sunday. And this is my consistency bout and it's August and I can't believe I already missed a Sunday in August. Did I really though. Yeah, I did. It's fine. I wanted to make it like this. So before I freakin forget. I just got a notification from Snapchat. That's like see your July memories recap. What are my July memories? Damn, July was a good time. Huh? prayers out to be honest. Didn't go recently. Oh, guys, I'm going on a trip. I'm going to I'll tell you guys after I don't tell you before. But I'm going to a special place that I've never been to two places actually one place I've been to other places I've never been to. Both require like a 20 hour flight. And I don't know how to deal with that. But will we keep pushing? Funny. I'm from love itself. So on Wednesday, many Friday, many episode, Sunday episode meditation. And I'll be here for you. So that your week starts beautifully. Yeah, I mean, so. And then we do like a meditation. Like maybe these could be like longer these like little chitchat things. So today I wanted to talk about two things. Actually, I love the idea of a mini episodes. I'm gonna do that I do what I want when I want how I want. I own Fridays. Now what I wanted to talk about today, we'll get we'll get to a lot. So basically, yeah, taking a social media hiatus, I think it's actually really important to like just like, isolate. Sometimes I even deleted all of my social media apps. I did keep Instagram. But that's just my personal Instagram because I'm trying to get my hair braided and there is no way to contact those braider unless it's their Instagram. So like I have Instagram for that. But I'm not like logging in and like watching stories and chat. I'm waiting for that one notification to pop up and be like, yes, girl come through or girl next week, the next week, etc. But it's good to like always reset and refocus. And I feel like there's something that's like shifting, always something shifting, but a really in a big way for me personally. And in order to be there for that shift. I have to be present and in order to be present and to be focused on my life. And in order to be focused on my life. I can't be focused on everyone else's lives. Get that dichotomy. So it's like that moving plan I know is supposed to do a YouTube video on this and I didn't because it's got corrupted. I don't know what happened. It just wasn't there and I didn't feel like starting over Christ. Okay, because my Lord and Savior. But yeah, maybe in the fall I'm thinking the fall the fall 100% just because this trippy trip, this long extended trip came out of nowhere and I just I'm here for life. My life is for the living not for the planners. So, yeah, it's the fall now and all else war hours, you know how the British they like war else like what else like the or else or her? Her, her or else? Um, yeah, so like when I was when I was like oh, yeah, what I learned so basically soulmates is quick snippet episode. Maybe I'll split this into two parts, and we'll have two episodes in one go, oh my gosh, that will really be like engenius a meet like that will really be in genius of me. That would be lovely. Actually, if we did that, like if we say like Part Two and like we did like part one. I don't know. I feel like this is like a shambolic episode. But it's fine because I'm here and I'm loving it. I'm showing up and I'm not even talking about it because I just wanted to do it when I thought about it. Don't talk about it be about it. To understand and understand. I'm still basically I am

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Yes. What started at the platform the the platform Yeah, the platform so basically like this idea of us quote unquote soulmate I just like was talking to my friend about this earlier. And I was like, wait, girl, like, hold up. This is like really huge. Leap look at it. I used to look at it. I no longer do only sometimes when I'm really in the mood to look at it like that, I guess. As like someone who is like your other half like we always talk about like a soulmate. That's a soulmate that a soulmate, that's a soulmate that as if they're like something to be completing you, right? But it's not the case at all. It's, it's way bigger than that. So think about a tree, right? So like a tree is a complete living entity on its own. Right. Before we think about that tree, let me finish but like, it's not that because you are complete, on your own completely whole completely lovely, completely wonderful, and this person is also completely home, completely wonderful. And when you two come together, you're not plugging into like, complete each other. Because you're already complete and whole, you're you're plugging into something that's much bigger and complete, you're plugging into the soulmate, energy, you know, so like, think about like a tree. So like a tree is a whole unto itself completely 100% know nothing about it is lacking, otherwise it wouldn't survive, it would literally die It is 100% whole, and this tree lives within another hole within an ecosystem that is whole unto itself. Right? The soil, its hope, the air, its whole, the earth, that it resides in this tree, it is whole, but both things are whole and coexisting within each other one within another. If you think about where the tree is located geographically, like its whole, it is, in an environment that fosters and grows, it is whole. And then you think of other trees and other places, whatever Baba blah, but it is whole right and even that geographical and like weather system above the tree where it's at right is whole unto itself. And it is a part of a larger system of temperature and weather that maintains itself across the entire world. Correct. So the tree is in us talking about the tree back to the tree, the tree is in that ecosystem, right? And the tree is whole unto itself completely. within another system that is whole unto itself completely the tree coexists with the grass, the earth, the bird, the sky, all of that right within the earth. And then the earth sits within the solar system that is whole unto itself, which is made up of a lot of other planets and a lot of other things but I like whole unto themselves. Do you see that there? So you are hold on to yourself. I can't believe I didn't get this what exactly was blocking me from seeing this fact like, through all those situation ships. I'm so confused. Tired, it's it's done. Hearing It's exhausting. But

15:10  
if I can say,

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Yeah, you're whole unto yourself. And then your quote unquote soulmate is whole unto themselves as well. And you can have maybe more than one I just, whatever if that's your ministry, have at it. That's not mine. Currently, this could change. But when you two come together, you're not coming to each other, like you're not coming together to each other. That's not what's happening. You're not attracting each other, you're not magnets, kind of what you are being attracted and magnetize to words is that larger energy? Yeah, that like big soulmate energy. So think about it, like, like, it's Russian doll style, like, you know, those Russian dolls are like the little adulthood into like a big doll, you're being attracted and magnetize to that energy. And it's beautiful, because what happens when you meet is you both have the frequent show resonance, you both have the like, the frequency that is able to match the frequency of that overarching energy. Right? And what you'd like if both, it's really gorgeous, actually, and it's such a beautiful timing, when both of you match that you're attracted to it and you meet in it, you meet in that energy, the energy is not the other person, you're both sitting and residing in this energy. That's why I think like a lot of people end up in situations that they really could do without, but they didn't, because their vibration wasn't matching the picture that they had in their head, and they're trying to make this person or this thing, or this place, or this occupation or this opportunity, something that it really is not. Because what it is, is the frequency or resonance that it holds and that you've been attracted to kind of does that make sense? So I just think like when we're thinking about soulmates From now on, putting this is my formal bid, there's not a person, it's an energy and it holds a frequency that you can only see like, you know how like, real recognize real and like skinny. And like hot people recognize hot people, like you know what I mean? That whole thing. Like, you'll only be able to see that energy that soulmate energy, that soulmate energy when you are matching it. Yeah. And once you see it, it's not like you have to like do anything, you just kind of hang out, you're in it already. And you're just waiting for someone else to show up in it already. You know, or they're in it already waiting for you like they don't even they're not even waiting because they're just in the energy. It feels so lovely. That's so beautiful. That's amazing. So that's what I wanted to share today. Welcome to From love itself the third rebrand and a yes, ladies. Well, I think is that if your rebranding and rebranding and rebranding, it doesn't even matter. Like y'all are way too married to your ideas because you scared? You're scared. You're scared? No, but I'm talking to a past me like just like scared that like if I don't keep going with what I'm doing, then it's gonna be like this. And it's gonna be like that. But like really like, relax. It's better to fail quickly. Not even fail quickly, but to iterate and try things quickly. And let them manifest how they'll manifest. Yeah. So this is cool. Yeah, I like this mini episode. I will see you guys

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